I first learned the power of questions from Barry Neil Kaufman, author of To Love Is To Be Happy With. “Bears,” as he likes to be called, teaches that you can. This is the first recording of Bruce Di Marsico to be released by his widow, Deborah Mendel. Bruce created the Option Method in In this live recording . The Collected Works of Bruce Di Marsico on the Option Method & Attitude, Vol. 1 [ Bruce Di Marsico, Deborah Mendel, Wendy Dolber, Frank Mosca, Aryeh.
What could I say? Then he got down. It was an adventure to become gloriously entangled in the web of agreements and disagreements with him over this never ending feast of topics, from the sublime to the ridiculous.
I recalled the moments in his kitchen speaking about really nothing much at all: I question beliefs much mareico Sherlock Holmes investigated a crime or Socrates guided his students into clarity.
These beliefs about un-happiness are so imbedded in my concept of reality, of how it is. Now that you have the belief, or at least a belief to begin this process, you are ready to clear it. Bruce was an extraordinary man, teacher, friend, husband. As I sat thinking of what to say about my memories of Bruce, my mind ranged over the years and the many wonderful things he had said that were so incredibly clarifying and insightful.
Several brucd asked me to write something about Bruce for this issue. One of my favorites is from Morty Lefkoe. His truths a simple soothing balm. It encapsulates his entire philosophy and is based on material he developed near the end of his life.
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He sheds new light on the myriad forms our unhappiness can take while at the same time removing its mysteries. Where would I end?
For him the freedom to be and to be happy stretched beyond space and time without restraint. Results will be faster if you actually work with a coach trained to help you get clear of your beliefs. But there was something more profound for me.
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And I am so grateful for the abundant opportunities to find them and to watch them turn into sources of amusement before my wondering eyes. He never felt obliged to explain himself in the slightest, and yet he would spend whatever time it took to explore his motives and the responses of others in the service of helping them clarify some possible unhappiness they were experiencing. Near the beginning of our friendship Bruce came to my house for dinner. Then my friend Anne Grete arrived to pick me up.
The Myth of Unhappiness captures the essence of this groundbreaking self-help tool. I heard them talking. Remembrance – by Deborah Mendel Several friends asked me to write something about Bruce for this issue. You can now hear Bruce discuss the Option Method questions and reveal how asking these questions help uncover judgments and beliefs that stand in the way of happiness.
Life redirected me into writing books and coaching people through words. He was down to earth. To be sure, he had an inimitable style of presenting Option and of querying people about their unhappiness. I had never experienced an individual session with Bruce, only classes and groups.
There were tears in my eyes. Di Marsico He had one simple truth to tell but each time he explained it, it was as if he had just breathed life into it for the first time.
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Time with him was mystical and transforming. His widow, Deborah Mendel, has put together his most succinct work, writings that he had evolved and refined over the thirty some odd years he shared Option with us. Barnaby was showing his books. She waited until my session was over then came in to visit with us for a marsioc moments.
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There were never any questions about you, but only ,arsico why you would hold yourself back from being happy NOW! Your eyes really brucf and beam love, and I sure enjoyed smiling with you. Years later while at work as a psychotherapist, and human relations consultant, he came to develop the Option Method as a self-help tool to help people become happier in their everyday lives. He never did get around to publishing a book himself, but he left us with a wealth of material to work with.
You have a wonderful smile. He gave me an Option session. We had spaghetti with my son, Barnaby brucr, at 3 or 4 years of age, was not known for his good manners. She had never been afraid to leave Ulster County. He describes the difference between wanting and needing. He loved to be with students. They chatted about where she lived New Jersey and why. A Practical Guide by Bruce M. Some of them were originally published in the IOMA newsletter.
The brce Barnaby said yes. That is the beauty and the gift of what Bruce has left for us. Not affiliated with the Option Institute.